Empaths 'not feeling/being heard' - 17th February 2017

When someone who is coming from their heart speaks and when others close to them do not stop and listen it's because they are not stopping to 'listen' to themselves consciously - as in they are not connecting their head to their hearts. Less words with more ' facts' - is what (can) be needed and also 'waiting' for an opening (energetically) or appropriate time to share what you need to can also be needed - depending on the situation. As many are finding (in particular with those close to them) that they are not 'being heard'. It is us that needs to hear (and FEEL) ourselves and realise if we repeat ourselves over and over to those who 'choose' to not listen, how are we respecting what we are saying if we are repeating ourselves? Are we wanting another person to hear us to validate what we are saying? Well yes we are but how can someone else validate or understand when they may have so much going on and are not in the space we are coming from - when they are not linking to their heart, due to so much hurt and pain they are feeling. If the other person is coming from their head and not linking to their hearts they will not hear or feel what we have to say. Are WE really FEELING and listening to ourselves? As if we are, we will not feel the need to say/share something repeatedly. This happened to me for many years until I realised that I was not being respected in what I had to say, so then I gave what I had to say respect and then I chose to say something once and then SILENCE. Not to continue to repeat or go on about it as in 'didn't you just hear what I said?' - type of thing. This is part of having our energy on 'our side of the fence' and not stepping over the other side and delivering what we are saying in someone else's space. As when we do this, it takes or exerts our energy to do so. Keep your energy for you, share when you feel you need to, if you are not being 'heard' then continue to love and respect and honour all you are and all you have to share in what ever way you choose to do so in each situation. Silence is and can be Golden. WHAT PART OF... Then there is also another way one can deal with this and I find this one quite fun and it can be very interesting as to others' reactions when one says and from a loving yet empowered space of: 'What part of what I just shared did you not hear or did you not understand' and then 'As I would like to understand what it is for you' When one says and feels this from within in a non-aggressive way - can stop others in their tracks. As when I said this to someone, they paused and then could not actually look me in the eye as they walked off and mumbled 'there's no need to be so upfront about it' and I then said, no I actually was not, I really just want to know what part of what I shared did you not hear or understand'. When this other person interacted with their energy and replied and I then also replied they felt the space I was coming from and it broke through the head and reached that persons heart. This will not happen every time, yet it allows us to say what something is and if we feel not heard, we can then ask what did they not understand... Of course there are other times in groups or more than one person where ego's are running 'rife', that sometimes we just need to remove ourselves and not even 'bother'. As we need to respect our energy and what we have to say and listen and feel within and to/with ourselves. And those that do not respect our energy of being or doing this, miss out - basically. I know many souls may already 'know' this and do this, yet I was guided strongly to share this. Much Unconditional Love, Truth and Honesty Anastacia Ascended Earth Master/Teacher/Guide